helpJava bro, appreciate for your comment. I come mostly from a Electrical Engineering background, Computer Engineering ma minor ho tara... dheri coding (OOP) gareko chaina. Purano kaam le sponsor garena... IT tira H1B - sajilo huncha bhanera jaana aateko. JAVA taning ta gare, dhoti instructor ji le basic online training dinu bha cha ( both in core & advance JAVA).......bahun baje aba aafai tuppi kasera padhna lako chu, before they send me out to job assignment.
I am referring to few available materials online which I have mentioned below. I hope this might be helpful to some other amateur beginners like me (ask for link if needed).

helpJava bro le aru kehi recommend gari diye aavari hune thiye.

1. Head First JAVA ( x 2 padheri saki sakyo)
2. David J. Malan ko Harvard lectures haru ramro rahecha for XML,HTML, jQuery, javascript, php (courses: CS50, CS75, CS76, CS164, CS259)
3. JVM ko ramro book rahecha docs.oracle ma, tyo padhdai chu.
4. UC Berkely ko Data Structure with JAVA (CS61B) ko lectures ekdam helpful cha.
5. Mehran Sahami ko Intro to CS + Program Methodology using JAVA (best reference) lago.

Server side ani CSS tira khasai padhna pako chaina.... school ma UNIX use garrya ho... basic topology haru matra yaad cha.