Hi sweetiepie, Your messages to so called pigs will never to them because from my general understanding in a month or so, guys who come in Sajha are much better than that. I know you have lots of good energy in you, but i think its coming out at wrong place and wrong audience. May be you should send your articles and letters to nepalnews or nepalitimes where many more targeted audience will get it. I think the new and upcoming generations in nepal treat their husband/wife as a friend, unlike the past generation who made them treat husband as a God. I think TV and other media are changing the way people used to think about husband wife relationship. A lot of men have also learned how to be romantic to their wives, and land up a hot and sizzling sex. Oh la la.. However, this has yet to reach villages and remote areas. Only time and education can change this, and i know it will take many more years when a couple in a villages can hug and kiss each other in public in front of their parents and still not be seen as a taboo.