Second is if your new girl get influenced by the ex....its good that you dont date her.... if some exs comes and tells me things... i would say mind your own business.....she will not be my concern.....ever.....so u need to give it a try.....
Relationships dont come with a guranttee card... you have to work on it....it might work or might not.....but you ll always have the satisfaction that you have atleast tried..... annd yes i ll second the thought of ujl here....you got to make her feel special
(This always works.....coming from a woman: p)