I guess you guys are in dilemma..Can't figure out the problem? If you go back to myth and look at the hindu culture, woman then was consider as MAATA. That means she was care giver in the one way or the another. But eventually it just vanished. I don't blame male society on this regard. If you guys are convince about the fact of woman's plight due to male society, male has been dominated indifferently as well. Matter of fact, cause is lack of understanding between them. Now question is who is responsible? I will say woman herself. First thing is woman never consider hershelf secured without male, they are so dependent. If you look at decent family in KTM you will see woman still doesn't want to go to work, she just doesn't want to despite her family wants her to. She wants to stop her education right after she marry.. there is trend among nepali women to say "AAAAAAAAA JHAYU'. Do you know, if a gal happens to select the a life partner, she looks for one who is more educated than herself. Isn't this self domination? Go to gaun and sahar in Nepal you will find women gathering in leisure but divided within SASU and BUHARI group. Every 4 hrs a day they gossip only about next one and victim is undoubtely a woman. If you gals are talkin about dowry thing, why the hell groom's mother and sister don't act against such trend? They are also a woman, aren't they? Sweetiepie society itself is polluted not just by a Man alone, a woman is part of it. And you are not talkin about no execusion of society structure, then a woman should go ahead and help earn living as well. For lets not be specific about a woman who lives abroad. It wouldn't be those men in Iraq to be killed if society was differently structured, there would certainly be the women too. If I am not wrong, sweetie pie, before calling us ass and moron, have you ever realize who help you to come to US? Isn't he your father? Hug the fact honey, this is how our society is. Thats why we have well known THEGO "BAU KO KAMAI..." and "AMAA KO MAMATA..."