Okay Confused: Sexual activity doesn't only mean "pocking the dough" . It includes all other activities with sexual feelings and intentions in your mind (like looking at a girl, flirting with her, calling her and having little sex chitchats, and other similar stuffs). Sex is, of course, very important factor in married life.That doesn't make it is the only important factor.Loving, caring, sharing, feelings, helping, being helped, and other similar abstract stuffs play a major role too.These factors don't substitute sex, rather complement it and make it more meaningful and enjoyable. This is what I believe.This may not necessarily apply to you or anyone else at all. DP.