Girls who are "nice" by your definitions have the senses to go for real men who actually know how to respect women. If you can judge us on based upon our clothes, looks, life choices, and even our ability to cook, we sure the hell will judge you based upon at least your competencies to keep us happy. And no, that does not make us "gold-diggers". If you want a "nice" and "perfect" girl, please be capable to deserve her first!