There is an old saying: "What she doesn't know, doesn't hurt her" That may be true. But remember, it doesn't hurt her because it kills her before she gets hurt. Looking at beautiful girls, talking to them in good faith, and admiring their beauty is not immoral.Cheating on your wife is different.If you are emotionally married to your wife (this means you really love and respect her and you want the same from her), you don't want to engage yourself in EXTRACURRICULAR ACTIVITIES. Before you go and sleep with another girl, imagine how you would feel if your wife slept with anohter man.This must be a good enough reason for you not to seek extra fun . DP