very good point dindukhi, in my humble opinion we Nepali live our lives for other people's expectation. most Nepalis who come to usa are not poor , but they come to usa or other countries to show off to their friends, relatives and neighbors. rather live life like machine but don't miss a chance to show off. they buy bigger houses in Nepal and in the usa they buy toyota highlander, honda pilot and big arse house but work doubleshift because it's so important for them to park that infront of another curry smelling Nepali house when they are invited for food. we're not all poor but we sure suffer from poor mentality.