You want real help? I think you should start making decision for yourself. First your GF asked you to transfer and you blindly transferred only to be left alone. Then you asked Sajha chat and got good recommendations but now you think that wouldn't be the right thing to do.

Only you have the full picture on this and hence you would be the best person to analyze your own situation. What people can help with is give you information about Omaha, Detroit or Dallas- but don't ask them about what you should do.