Sex is with our passions, as it is with fire and water, they are good servants but bad masters. As ppl do say "Mortal lovers must not try to remain at the first step; for lasting passion is the dream of a harlot and from it we wake in despair."so sex is not a real sex unless it is done orally .the sex is recognized as a perfect deed when it is started orally n accomplised activating in real.unless u enjoy ur time with whtever u do ,its never a bad thing for u ...live ur life with whtever u believe in ...life is urs if u until u lead ahead by following urself...its not urs life when u try to follow others . "listen everyone but don't follow all"