so permanent solution for this problem, NEVER GET MARRIED GUYS/GALS.. guys if you get married, gals will always bother you, you will never find ur personal space, and ur life will be a mess..yo bhaiena, tyo bhaiena, tyo kina gareko, yo kina nagareko, malai kina nasodheko, uslai kina bhaneko..and etc..etc..and etc... gals if u get married, beilive it or not, every guy is evil, he will start dominating ur life, and tell u what to do and what to not, and plus you have to take care of all the house wrk and children wrk -.and it will suck more to u than to guys... and lastly it will create what i called, "CHA-HI-NI-NA-CHA-HI-NI" tensions...like paisa ko tension, budi ko affair ko tension, budo ratti ghar nafarkeko tension, ani baccha bhayo bhanee, money minded ra confused jasto hola bhanne tension...:P life is a pain after marriage, it is still without marriage...dammn life sux dude.. :)