I had been in trouble once while talking (radically) about Sraddha. I asked my neighbor why he was giving away stuffs in his dad's Sraddha. He told me that his dad would get the stuffs, if he gave those to the Pundit. And the toung-slip happened.I asked him: "Why don't you give your mother to Pundit so that your dad will get his wife?". And immediately, I was in trouble. DP.