My point is not about stopping celebrating teej My point is do they want to celebrate???? if they do for the all the above reasons then that's great what I'm saying is if they didn't want then they should be not outcasted........ i want or i wish or i wonder if they know this is the decision you make not your sasu makes for you or that's listed on the agreement on your marrige recipt if you want to fast you can in the other hand if you do not you do not... and i know it's not like that in nepal even kathmandu..........so i don't know what to say I'm really sorry that it is like that