Since I'm very fortunate and now that i have learned about self repect and individual's respect and their rights.... I would rather try conveying message than give up and follow the rudibadiparampara..................................you know what ghampani is so right when he said"when are the husbands going to pray, celebrate or starve for the long life, good health of their wives? And what do yo mean by an ordinary american changing husband every year? At least they have the freedom to do that if they are not happy, and don't get treated right by their husbands. Do the women in Nepal have that choice, huh? While the husband stays out most of the times with his friends, gets drunk, gambles, gets involved in infidelity and comes home to treat the wife bad, she still has to love him, be faithful and live with him, and wait for that one day to celebrate a short freedom? What are you talking about Crishna? Give our women freedom to live and then they don't have to wait for this one day. "