Unknown KT, you missed my point, Ok tell me what options they have. I am talking aboutmore that 90% women of Nepal who wiat for teej to have some fun. You are talking about educating them .....are you kiding to me and to all those women?? You are very fortunate to get good education and to be able to read my and others posting in internet, but that is far beyond the imagination of the women few KMs away even form kathmandu city. My another point was the family ties. Teej is not just starving for your husband. You are polluting the importance of Teej by saying "starving". Its the feeling of you towards your husband, becuase you love him and you want him to live longer and be healthy. Those feelings are very important for good and healty life. Otherwise you will be like an ordinary american changing husband every year looking for something and you dont know what that somethng is. Please dont take me as chauvinist. I lived in remote village and I know the pain of women living there.