crishna IGNORANCE..........................!!!!!! so you are saying whatever that is happing there is good and we should do the same thing??? wow....may be they need some education to understand that rudi parampara of whatever you mentioned above(including having to wait teej to have fun)........that's not right and i would nerver starve myself for my husband(if i ever get married) enjoy and try to (too lazy to check for typos please make sense out yourselves)