My dear codsmile, first off: chitta nadukhau hai? Halka joke ko hisab le bhaneko ho kya. 

Now serious turn:
With all due respect, I would like for you to watch how her thoughts are popping up and evolving pertaining to a particular action of her husband. Are you just listening to her or are you approving her convictions which perhaps are fueling her thought patterns. I would suggest that you be very observant on this. 

While I totally understnad this poor young lady having to go through this agony, don't make any hasty judgements nor any decisions. I know, you think it's easier for me to say but unbearable for your friend to live it. Look in the retrospect, could this guy have been mentally ill, or violent towards her, or etc etc? Based on what you are saying, the case at hand is more of care and he not changing his lifestyle as a married man. Would you agree?

Has she sat down and had a very soul conversation with him on how she feels? I get it she doesn't think he will listen or even provides atmosphere to do that. But HAS SHE TRIED THAT? 

Let me ask you...how many of us live a Bindas life while single? How many of us are very career oriented? 
What if this guy also is that sort, but still a very nice inside. Not everyone can change their life, like a light switch, from the day of wedding. He has not calibrated himself as a married man. So since you mentioned that they are just married, I would suggest that she give more time. And don't take it wrong...You definitely don't fuel her, perhaps immature, feelings.