Posted by: devroad June 22, 2013
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Folks,
I'm not here to rant about who a particular person is neither am I trying to generalize every Nepalese living in the US. I've been living here for a few years now.
I ask you all, why all this hate in our community ? I have always believed in peace. I was raised to believe in such a thing. My parents never spoke ill of others, so I never had any 100 level courses on it either. But, the constant hatred. . The thing I hate the most, is how one person will justify themselves to being good friends with another, and then happily shoot a bullet in their head, without the slightest confirmation. It is sad.
I'm not pointing fingers here. I'm simply stating the obvious...We have a majority of young Nepalese living here in the US, and we all at some point go through hurdles and such .. I've noticed how people simply escalate it to another level. One story is all that is needed for the city to be flooded with rumours and lies. They will never have the courage to ask the other person for clarification, and instead take the red pill for what it is.
Then, I realize .. most people will do that. They have their issues. And, people will talk about others till eternity, as long as it doesn't involve them. They will reflect their own personal defiencies onto others and simply take the word for it about someone else.
Condemnation is plenty, compliment is rare.
Your job, your status, your house, doesn't make you any better now, does it ?. We are all the same. We all come from the same country... be it the streets of Jhapa, to the palaces of Kathmandu. Nobody is better than anybody else. We make who we are. .. We are who we want to be. Even the most educated, seem blunt about these circumstances. I'd like to hear your opinion on it. I've faced some of these things myself and I'd like to know how others would feel about this. Sure, people will praise you for your accomplishments but, who are we to trust ?
My 2 cents.
I'm not here to rant about who a particular person is neither am I trying to generalize every Nepalese living in the US. I've been living here for a few years now.
I ask you all, why all this hate in our community ? I have always believed in peace. I was raised to believe in such a thing. My parents never spoke ill of others, so I never had any 100 level courses on it either. But, the constant hatred. . The thing I hate the most, is how one person will justify themselves to being good friends with another, and then happily shoot a bullet in their head, without the slightest confirmation. It is sad.
I'm not pointing fingers here. I'm simply stating the obvious...We have a majority of young Nepalese living here in the US, and we all at some point go through hurdles and such .. I've noticed how people simply escalate it to another level. One story is all that is needed for the city to be flooded with rumours and lies. They will never have the courage to ask the other person for clarification, and instead take the red pill for what it is.
Then, I realize .. most people will do that. They have their issues. And, people will talk about others till eternity, as long as it doesn't involve them. They will reflect their own personal defiencies onto others and simply take the word for it about someone else.
Condemnation is plenty, compliment is rare.
Your job, your status, your house, doesn't make you any better now, does it ?. We are all the same. We all come from the same country... be it the streets of Jhapa, to the palaces of Kathmandu. Nobody is better than anybody else. We make who we are. .. We are who we want to be. Even the most educated, seem blunt about these circumstances. I'd like to hear your opinion on it. I've faced some of these things myself and I'd like to know how others would feel about this. Sure, people will praise you for your accomplishments but, who are we to trust ?
My 2 cents.