It elates my heart to find that many of us here know how to, "agree to disagree...".What Sitara (or anyone else for that matter,) says or writes are her opinions and that is how, at least, I look at them. At the same time, I also think what she so eloquently writes, more often than not, gives tongue to those Nepalese women who may have difficulty verbalizing ideas,due to the lack of means, oppurtunities or guts or whatever... I, for myself, can safely say that many a times Sitara's expressions have entertained me, provoked me, touched me, thrilled me, soothed me and infuriated me. No wonder I am her fan. Many Sajha visitors possess distinct and incomparable talents. As a result, Sajha has evolved into a huge tree akin to a large Banyan, with very many diverse branches and roots, sprouting and shooting off left and right, as they wish; and, rightfully, the diversity sustains it firmly against hurricanes of any size and strenth. No wonder i am addicted to Sajha. I call it "Chakrabyuha", where, once couple of years ago i stepped in and, since then, have not been able to find my way out. Anyways, ke bhanna la thi , kura kata po pugi ra.. Oh!! yes, Malai Sulsule le Khusukka bhaneko hijo rati ... Her articles, writings, musings , whatever one likes to call them, nowon are available regularly on the web-page mentioned above. So don't forget to check it often. no!.no!.no!. back up...Now!!..don't even go there.. Remain assured, I love my day-job ; and, I have no desire to quit it so soon.