Behooveji, you are mistaken. I do not consider you my enemy and do not hold grudges. I do not even hold grudges against people from the real world who have wronged me, why would I with a person from the virtual world. You are a talented person and I do admire your writing skills. And what vendetta?. I think you tend to take criticisms too personally. It is sad that you do not regret using the word. I had expect someone who considers himself a polite gentleman to apologize to the lady. That would be the right thing to do. Banning users is the job of the person who owns this site. It is none of our business. All people who visits Sajha are equal. You should remember those friends who you know would visit Sajha for friendship sake, the real visitors are those whom you do not know outside chat. These visitors are the ones which make Sajha. There are no two groups like good visitors/bad visitors. So do not get personal on a site that is for public. @ BT, thanks but being a gentleman, I can never condone use of the word harlot on the opposite sex. Ojaswi could have been wrong in chat, that I am not sure but Behoovji has crossed the limits with his use of words and I would deplore it all over again. I came here to Sajha after a month or so and I happened to read his post, and it really disgust me, more so coming from a man who claims to be polite and is respected writer of Sajha.