Firstly, Moneyminded, I really wish that the 'postings software' in sajha had spellcheck and grammar check...because it's painful to read your postings with so many errors!!!! Secondly, I think that you need to grow up. One of the things that you need to do is to realize that you need not prove yourself to your parents. They love you unconditionally. Once you accept that fact, you will certainly be a happier and a more successful person. Good luck with your parents and your writing skills!!!