BT bro, I do not visit the chat site. However the lady has admitted in her post that she might have gone overboard. You cannot start a website like Sajha and expect everything to be hunky dory. I do not believe there could be any reasons to call her a harlot. There are better ways to get your points across. You cannot call someone a harlot at the same time claim moral high ground. This reminds me of those Nepalese guys who simply call girls "Randi" or "[Disallowed String for - use of word not allowed]" just because they would not give the guys any importance. Those are cheap behavior. Remember your mom, sister, wife are also women, you should be careful using words like harlot. Those are derogatory terms to the core. Come on it was just a chat. If she crossed her limits, Neo or San or whoever can ban her. I am sorry but only sick people would sanction usage of such words and that too over some chat. Behooveji is clever man, I am sure he could have used better words to describe his feelings. I did not call Behooveji a pig, I said he behaves like a pig. You know getting dirty and wallowing in shit. Look a chatroom is not a house. Anyways to answer your question, if a lady guest comes and chides me or slaps me for bad food, I had tell her to get out or I will call the cops. But rest assured brother, I will not address her as a harlot. Nor will I hit her. I have been raised as a gentleman. Behooveji's story is titled "A Vixen and a Gentleman". So who is this gentleman?. I guess he was referring to me. Who else could it be?. It cannot be him coz he used the word harlot on her. IT cannot be Neo coz he gave this story a thumbs up, thus sanctioning the usage of the word.