i would join the Mavni, make her proud and her parents too server the great country i live in and help my parents and siblings back home too bringing them here with expedited immigration process for Army. and in few years i would go to some real good school with gi grant and make a future for my family and myself. if i die in the battle field it's much worth it than to a burden to others. give her a break too she's a waitress and barely going to community college. be a man, support her don't look how she can support you. if papers is what you want then join mavni. if you cant join it then look for other honest options.