My question was more around balancing responsibility towards parents (from Nepal planning on moving to US) and girlfriend/wife (also Nepali) and if it is possible to have them coexist in US.

I'm sure this is a tough situation for all Nepali guys. We grow up with a mindset that we need to take care of our parents. However,  down the road we realize it is not as easy with a partner involved. Just wanted to get some thoughts around it.