peepal ji, live with your fate is what you say? sorry sarkar, we humans don't live with our fate. There is nothing wrong to be a Nepali but we human race in over all put effort to improve our living situation. WE humans move from place to place and look for better opportunities. How do you think today's America was established? People immigrate, people move, people try to improve thier life.. it has happned in the past and it will happen in the future and what that brotehr wasnted to do was to make it happen for him in the present.. and you say it is wrong? Swatee ji, just helped a brother in a way she could. At that point if the brother the brother was not helped then he could be livining in a miserable situation of guilt, regrets and frustration. SWatee ji is great , she felt for the guy and helped with all the possible ways... Look from the wider prespective and look from the prespective of humanity not just with INS's point of view. I personally think that all the foreign students should be granted citizenship of permanent residency. If they can bring thousands of people in diversity visa why can't they help the productive people in the country living in a miserable situation of fear and threats of losing status. true relationship? what is true relationship? every relationship is somewhat selfish.. people marry to feel security, feel intimacy and what not reason.. the brother wanted to get married to pursue his wise dreams that is education. Why is that immoral in compare to people who marry to get sex, intamacy or feeling of security? try to be Human, not just american...