Vivant
It's all in up in the air to believe what is the real truth. We will have to hear the white house and the secret service side of the story. To me, honestly, it sounds too fabricated just to write an article.
The whole scenerio is that she could not get inside a particular room at the white house to get her key from her husband (that's it, she was not allowed in), or according to her, she was "discriminated". Couldn't she use her cell phone to call her husband? Couldn't she ask someone to get her husband to meet outside?
She said white women were allowed without the pass. Did they have special security clearance? Were these "white" women merely wives or people of high profile? Did they knew the secret service so well so they were allowed without a pass?
Why was Seema not allowed inside? Was it a confidential meeting at the ballroom? Do we know who her husband is? Who does he work with? Who was he with at the ballroom? After all, it is white house and not a carnival.
There are so many questions before we can even fathom what really happened that night. 
We might have our head in the sand hoping the storm will pass, according to your last statment. Atleast we don't have our head in our arse. Just kidding.