Ha ha. You are comparing apples and oranges. Well, the point of whole argument is concluding what is right / wrong. Now, you talked about swingers, there are naked communities, there are all kinds lets not get into that.  IF your sister/ mother walking down the street and if you yourself made deriogary comments then also, my BP shoots 8848 meters, ashishme for not respecting ladies in humanly manner.

The point here is glorification in belonging to certain class, community, religion or land. luckily, We were born in Nepal ( In the sense, I was the one lucky to ignite life not saying Nepal is lucky country). To any given animal/Human, earth should be motherland. The divisions are human teritorial divisons. Political agendas are all about territories. Not saying, strong one can occupy all the lands but just be organised more liberally. Like states in united states or countries in europe or even Nepal/ India. If we can travel a globe, in a day, then we should be global citizens as per developments and sciences. Earth seems small in 21st century. Its not like columbus trying to discover new parts of world any more. 

From, me, my house, my family, my city, my country to Shifting as my globe/planet, As of now, only planet notouring life in whole universe. Otherwise, So called intelligent human leaders will kill themselves and the planet whole too. Guess who will be carrying gun without knowing who is killing whom and for what reason ?