OMG this is so true. One of my best friends is going through this same thing. The guy was a nice guy on H1 visa he said it would be easy to get spouse visa. People living in Nepal who haven't travelled much are a bit naive so they thought it would be easy to get the visa since the guy was working for a good company. Now 3 years into the marriage my friend is still in Nepal going through rough emotional time. They are having fights in skype every time. It is probably not going to work out. Such a waste of everything.