DC Gril. I was in the same dilemma when I got married! You dont want to marry a girl from Nepal because you think different; you dont want to marry a girl from here (like you!) because the ones around you are either arrogant (if they have made a little money or pretty or has a sense of pride that she has green card, etc, etc.) or useless (cause they dont know where they're going). The third kind was yet to find. So......... I took a chance and got married old traditional way in Nepal.. saw a girl in Nepal "discovered" by my cousins. Talked to her for 20 mintues. Got married next months. We are happy here ever since! Believe me it works! Just get into your life and stop being choosy! No one is perfect! You have to adjust to your surrounding! I knew a girl raised in the US since she was five. A boy, also raised in the US (and very successfu professionaly), wanted to marry her (they were introduced by family friends .. it was going to be an arranged marriage!). Girl wanted to "think" before saying "yes." Boy had no time for wait for an answer. Within a month he got married in Nepal and already got 2 kids! A happy man right now! The girl, of course, is still thinking -- is still unmarried at an age of 29. So STOP THINKING BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE!