wo wow Gorkhali! Cool down, cool down. Whoa! Look at him get angry, maaaan!! All I had said is its hard to find a realistic, ambitious, openminded Nepali to get married to in this place (since all that is echoing in my brain right now after reading this thread is the disgust You and Moneyminded carry with yourselves). Jesus, if you just wanted sex, go get a whore to do the job for you. Dont treat us like a commodity. I mean, your phrases above, 'after ejaculation, sex is over. Go get a vibrator and play...' , What the f**k??? Relationship. Thats what we are talking about. We arent watching a movie on how two commodities interact. And somebody else said in the thread said ( dont remember if its you), that he'll take his wife to the mall, come pick her up, make a coffee in the morning...Women can do things on their own- at least I can go do my own shopping, make my own coffee, in fact, I'll make one for you if you want! When I first started this thread, I was throwing a question on air. Thinking, may be, there are other women who feel the same way. I didnt want to make it personal, but since everybody here assumes that I'm desperate to find someone, for all of you who think so- I AM NOt LOOKING. And I wouldnt be pleading to Sajhaites to go find a groom for myself. Jesus. There are better ways. On your question about how many hours I work and all that shit, none of your business- and completely irrevalent to what I started the thread for. And one more thing, may be you know better, since you mentioned earlier that you were married, But, to voice an opinion for myself (I dont know what other women think and dont want to be voicing wrong opinions), I have no objection to let my b/f and/or a potential husband do what they want, unless it poses a threat to relationship. If women dont act and let you do what you want even on the verge of failing relationships, then you'd probably be on the streets, divorced and feeling miserable about what just happened to your beautiful marriage. That is why women. They build relations, not break them. You cannot just whine about small things (may I remind you, who does your laundry, who goes grocery and cooks for you, who does the ledger book, who finds your socks when you're running late for office?? Just sticking to the traditional TV serials, since I'm sure my b/f will have a possible share of all these). So just dont whine about how women want to manipulate you. Anyways, this isnt leading us anywhere. So if I have caused you any trouble by starting this thread (since I've angered you so much, you brought out your Mahabharat with you...), I am sorry. I dont want to be sounding a Bitch, while I've no intention of personally slashing anyone. You're all just great, and have a great sense of humor (although some were very pervetive- almost made me puke). So, Chill YOs!