Dayummmmm Soliel, That's what they call "bagal ma chora, sahar ma dhindora" in our Terai. ;) If Soliel becomes a-man-who-isn't-there, then I don't know what kinda man DC_girl is lookin' for. Seems like she is more concerned about finding a third kind... close encounter of a third kind, oh, that sounds like Kalankisthan... ;) who is kinda useful, wakes up early and knows how to make superhit coffee :D ain't that useful? Well, party useful but it's better than someone useless. More usefulness?? Well, Kalanki knows how to drive ;) He can drop her off to Mall and come pick her up... ain't that useful? If wanted, he can even hang around with her in the mall, can talk about virtually everything yet nothing depending upon her mood.:) That sounds useful. Well those are only few examples of usefulness. hehe... About arrogance, well, Kalanki is bit arrogant, eh, being a true Nepali ko chora he grew up with the notion of "Beekh (poison) nabhaako snake ke snake, Ieekh nabhaako manche ke manche"... but not that much arrogant to blow her brains out like a firestone tires. Does kalanki sound like an example of the third kind? Well well, dunno, eh... DC is too far away ;) I'd rather go to Boston... and throw a bbq party there... in the same park, and invite the same crowd, how about that??? Oooh, seems like those girls in Boston BBQ party eat real Basmati rice for the lunch and dinner!!! :D:D Kasto sukumari hau??? Enuff with bs, back to do the real thing... ;) DC_girl, good-luck finding a third kind... (third kind? like ET? well he is in NYC and happily married... eh!! hagi hagi hagi??)