Meera, my sweet: Surely, you would not fall in love with a pathetic liar, nor a pathelogical one KNOWING he was one! hehe! Rajesh ji: If common sense were "common", everyone would possess it. An openminded girl/woman would surely consider him IFF (bi-conditional logic here) he does not come across as "desperately seeking" a wife. Ask him to start with friendship where empathy and trust builds up. His "assets" and his physic should not be the criteria for attracting females, his personality should. At this point, it would take a friendship to build that up.