I think the word itself is so bogus to justify. I don't believe in soulmate atleast at this point. I don't know I may gradually get matured enough to understand other's soul and may notice that she is my mate. Wait! may be not, huh. But I cannot claim her to be my a soulmate at that point either, I would rather say we are just one-another needs not exactly a soulmate. Thats good enough, at least some who see our relation think we are each other soulmate --hehehe. A "SOULMATE" sounds just good as jargon, when we are fully satisfied with each other, when there is happiness and tranquility. When one does false judgment that his/her diginity has been tampared, then there would be no more soul, no more mate. That is how people are - SO SELFCENTERED, and there are lots of catches and condition, to be somebody else SOULMATE, else you will be stamped - VOID. Exception apply thou. My statement is in general.