Been there and done that. Sorry to say bro, it is not them, it is you who is insecured, a typical characteristic of nepali youth. We grow up without even knowing it. Alright, showing off new cars and bragging about wealth, job might not be right, but you have problems with people updating fb status? If so, you have some serious issues. People across this planet do that. So basically what you are saying is nepali youth do not like to talk to people. I mean if you are offended when I ask your status or where are you from in nepal, then why bother talking at all. I used to be in your shoes many years ago, only to realize that I was the one with issues. Grow up friends, be little tolerant and confident about yourself. Not all Nepali are alike.