DC_Girl, I know what you mean. A whole bunch of people come close and the rest is timing and how you grow together. If the timing is wrong, then two people who might otherwise be good together will not work. (This is your sum up of the last thread) When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us. Rest is just for you to explain to me (would you? please!),"if" may be God wants us to meet never know when; on my way keep looking. I guess, you got that now. The best kind of me is the kind you and I sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you and I''ve ever had." Who knows what happens next. I have no more questions left. Probably one more.