Posted by: metta January 30, 2013
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My point: If there is any chance that wearing revealing clothes may encourage people to rape, under certain circumstances then, maybe it would be wise for women to exercise caution depending upon where they are going be at.
- There is already enough talk and advice blaming what women should and shouldn't do to prevent it. Indian baba even went far enough to blame gang bus rape victim. Why can't we simply blame the men? People (articles on onlinekhabar) are blaming short clothes, porn movies, vulgarity in nepali movies, western culture for the rape. They even emphasize on these points by making these arguments as headlines. But the reality is very different. I doubt if any of the cases are prompted by the women wearing revealing clothes. I don't hear much about the rapes in cities where women wear such clothes. It is taking place mostly in rural places in the case of Nepal. If you want to go further and say that men couldn't control after seeing the modern women in cities, I don't have much argument to make here.
Are you saying that it's fine for women to walk alone in dark places or bad pat of town wearing skimpy clothes? You don't think it's risky in any way???
- Please tell me how often you hear in the news about rapes taking place in such dark places or because women were walking alone with these clothes in the case of NEPAL? Can you see what's going on there? I'm talking about NEPAL. I think women know much better and they don't take such risks. Of course, it's risky; I'm not denying that. But what I disagree with is people going on giving advice to women saying what they should or shouldn't do by giving bigger emphasis on women's behaviors while completely ignoring men's behaviors.
Don't try to bring unrelated your LOGICAL examples by dragging family members. I won't be responding to these. I thought you were logical and smart.
Listen, I don't care about winning or losing the argument. It's not about winning the argument. It's about seeing reality. I am not disagreeing with something logical you're saying. It's sad that you're seeing this as win or lose.
- There is already enough talk and advice blaming what women should and shouldn't do to prevent it. Indian baba even went far enough to blame gang bus rape victim. Why can't we simply blame the men? People (articles on onlinekhabar) are blaming short clothes, porn movies, vulgarity in nepali movies, western culture for the rape. They even emphasize on these points by making these arguments as headlines. But the reality is very different. I doubt if any of the cases are prompted by the women wearing revealing clothes. I don't hear much about the rapes in cities where women wear such clothes. It is taking place mostly in rural places in the case of Nepal. If you want to go further and say that men couldn't control after seeing the modern women in cities, I don't have much argument to make here.
Are you saying that it's fine for women to walk alone in dark places or bad pat of town wearing skimpy clothes? You don't think it's risky in any way???
- Please tell me how often you hear in the news about rapes taking place in such dark places or because women were walking alone with these clothes in the case of NEPAL? Can you see what's going on there? I'm talking about NEPAL. I think women know much better and they don't take such risks. Of course, it's risky; I'm not denying that. But what I disagree with is people going on giving advice to women saying what they should or shouldn't do by giving bigger emphasis on women's behaviors while completely ignoring men's behaviors.
Don't try to bring unrelated your LOGICAL examples by dragging family members. I won't be responding to these. I thought you were logical and smart.
Listen, I don't care about winning or losing the argument. It's not about winning the argument. It's about seeing reality. I am not disagreeing with something logical you're saying. It's sad that you're seeing this as win or lose.