Posted by: metta January 27, 2013
नारी प्रति गिद्धे दृष्टि त्याग गर !
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Everything aside, focus on this one to one analogy. If you have something that others covet but don't have, they can possibly rob you to get it. And they can rob a little kid or a old woman out of their jewelery if the perpetrators think they can get away with it. So my point is you don't want to be flashing off your jewellery or cash in a poor neighborhood.

- Do you have any numbers that show rapes are commited to flashing women as you presume. Why do you emphasize on teaching or taming women and keep mum about punishment or behavior/attitude of men.

If you are in a 5 star hotel party with good security and $100 entry fee to get in, then you can go and flash your jewellery and your cash. So it is just something that you have to be smart about where and how you do it.
- Are you sure that robbery takes place only when you show jewellery in poor neighborhood?
- Are you sure that rapes are taking place in conservative places to the modern women?
- Do you have any knowledge which locality the rapes are being taking place in Nepal? Do you anything abou these rape victims?

If girls are in a nude beach then they can go bare and that's fine, if they are in a beach then flash your bikinis. But, if you are walking back in a street at night alone or with one friend in some dark street in kathmandu or india, or maybe even in some US ghettos, then perhaps you need to be smart enough not to dress up to arouse any kind of misbehaviour.
- You are repeating the same things. So I will have to repeat my answer? Do you mean that rapes happen only to bikini wearing women in ghettos?

This is again another issue where idealism and realism needs to be understood. Ideally, it should be fine, but there are lot of anti social elements lying dormant all around us, ready to spring into action at any trigger they may perceive.
- You came back to the same point. You mean we need to be practical because men get attracted when they see beautiful skin and can't control their man. So you shouldn't punish those men, but instead we should training women to wear burqas and cover all their body because if they get raped, it's not men's fault, it's ALWAYS the fault of women because they don't understand the issue of idealism and realism.

You want to sideline the main issue by injecting totally different religious and regional ideologies.
- Can you see your irony?
- Who is your idol? 
- You say above sentence and come up by giving the best example by idolizing religious and regional hardliners who terrorized their community, e.g. Thakre. If you are the follower of Thakre, it's no wonder you have such extreme views. By the way do you also listen/support the indian baba who openly blamed the indian bus gang rape victim?



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