Appalled by some people failing to relate to this. This piece reflects experiences of a majority of Nepalese in the states and outside. One of my good friends had a guy fly out all the way from Florida to visit her in Chicago, only for the guy to be rejected right then and there because she noticed a missing tooth. Had he been a random guy she'd met at a Nepalese gathering, his missing tooth would've probably mattered less. 

The chances of a guy or a girl living abroad, resisting arranged marriage settings are significantly higher compared to those living in Nepal. Something just doesn't seem right and/or you tend to be crippled by uncertainty when you're asked to talk to a person with a preconceived idea that if the two of you were to 'like' each other, you two would be getting hitched.