You admit that you parents are putting pressure on you constantly and you act like your talking with random men just the sake for your parents. Have you even realised those men might be on the same boat as you are? You cannot judge a person by a phone call. If somebody else was to judge you by a mere phone call, would you think he/she would have got the real picture of you? So, the point is: go and talk with the folks but donot judge anybody so quickly. Do not talk for a long time intially and see where it goes.


One more thing I would like to add which applies to lot of us. Do not wait too long to get married. Life is full of sh*t and we cant avoid that. Do not make excuses by saying I dont have a good job, I am not done with my studies ......blah blah.  For women, the later you have your baby, the more chances of having complexities and disorders in your kid. Listen to your OLD MAN and WOMEN. You think they are bugging you but they have a wider vision than you.