I've been watching sajha on and off for a while and the reason it sucks is because the admin favors his friends like bathroomcoffee and let's them abuse others while others are banned at the smallest infractions. It's not about democracy but about being fair and applying the same rules to everyone. Few people are banned for posting a link because admin thinks it's promotion but people like bathroomcoffee are allowed to be abusive to everyone because they don't have to follow the general rules of respect because they know the admin.