Work - maintain a proffessional relationship, ( don't be too personal) family- trust your parents, brothers and sisters friends- depends But in general , use your judgement, trust your inner voice to some level, distinguish voices that give peace versus the ones that are fleshy. I suggest that you read these books 1. Seven habbits of highly effective people 2. How to hear from God- Joyce Meyers Hope that helps. Back to work. Preeti