come on guys, cut this guy a slack. everybody deserves to make mistakes. this dude is not the first and not will be the last person to do so. At least he is admitting that he did sth wrong and regretting. 

jalan bro, my suggestion

live your double life, until you get caught. its not gonna be the end of the world. do not even think of abortion. you guys are talking as if it was for you, you would have let go this israeli chick thinking of your wife back home. come on, be realistic. israeli girls are beautiful. hard to resist.