Are you in love with her and is she in love with you too? Do you think both of you are compatible and has developed good understanding?
Are you are in Nepal and ready to take social pressure? .People react differently on similar situation on different occasions.   Haribans is a celebrity & was a widower and his story may not be comparable with your situation.
You raise a good question but  check yourself if you are ready either way then suggested to move accordingly. (