Bittertruth, I'm not trying to make you like her, but I don't see any reason to dislike her. As long as she is causing you no harm there is no need to dislike her. What you can always take out of any experiece or someone's experience is bits and pieces of information. I am just saying that you can always take away bits and pieces of information. If you didn't find anything useful then maybe you are a better (bitter) person already.