@Fantush Dude, Trust me politics is the last place i wanna be in. Don't get me wrong, I admire that everybody is inputting suggestions and trying to help- i get that but  I think there are certain issues that you have to encourage people to decide on their own. As you put it, i didn't mean to judge-i just advised her to make the relationship decisions based on her real circumstances and just be carried away by some random thoughts.That felt right to me, you have the right to your own opinion.
Depends how long is long for you. My theory doesn't suggest me to wait , wait and keep waiting instead start acting up.

ps. I think you are the best. Apologies.