@silichohills Some people above are too personal and i don't think anybody should advise you on your personal relationship based on some incomplete facts, YOU TALK LIKE THE TALK OF OUR POLITICIAN ,I'M THE BEST DON'T LISTEN ANYBODY ,FOLLOW ME EVERYBODY , TYPICAL HYPOCRITE THOUGHTS.AND SEE WHERE NEPAL IS GOING ,In those comments above everyone have their opinion and tried their best ideas to share ,it means something for here ,rest it's on her ,she has to decide the best for her , btw I'vent' Heard GREEN CARD  PROCESS FOR SPOUSE is A LONG LONG way process.