@bittertruth, @goddamn , @pepsi and @vname. thank you all for your suggestions.

Guys - the problem is that I'm not getting married in US, but in Nepal. The expectation [ from everyone] here is that I bring her to US on a dependent visa. To apply for the visa, we'd need a marriage certificate. But, in Nepal, in records, I'm already married to someone else.

@p_didi - i don't think i'll achieve anything by setting her up. let her live her life happily. i'm just trying to figure out ways to be with a person I've always loved and be  a little happy myself. 

@vname  - The lawyer whom I spoke to suggested that the country of divorce should be the same as country of marriage. The Court of Law in Nepal is not obligted to honor a devorce certificate from another country. 

@Kiddo - I liked your sarcasm. Blame it on my poor judgement again. Lawyers suggest you the stuff that brings them money. From my past experience - sometimes, a non-lawyer has better ideas than a lawyer. I'm exploring Sajha for few suggestions. I hope it's not a crime.