Hahaha. @intelligentguy i know the feeling brah. If you have a 360 it should come with a headset but if its ps3 then you gotta buy one. They cost around 20-30 for a new one i think. But i prefer used stuff so it will cost you less if you buy used (As if you already didnt know that). I hate those people who curse at other people when they cant admit that they are sore losers. I curse back at them but almost always thier only defense of themselves and thier pride is that i have an accent and i am an atankabadi.(u know what im saying). then they start making fun of my accent. Pathetic losers. Try to form a party and then start a game with people you are familiar with or are in your freinds list. Thats what i do most of the time. It is easier for me because i do not play MW3 alot and instead play Black Ops zombies and most of the people i play with are adults who are good guys and want to play a good game. Trust me dude MW3 is for kids these days and you will only find lame kinds playing that game these days IMO. Play Battlefield 3 now thats an adult game.