Alright guys just to let you know, I am not digging about sex just so that I am virgin and I want  to leave her after that.....
I am digging it so that she would not have to live only with her emotions..like praying to god so that she could die..
I know it will definitely hurt me for a while to find about their sex life if they ever had any, but I will be relieved to know that she is no more thinking about betraying me...by not saying what i asked before...