P.S: WE'VE GOT TO STOP THIS BLOODY OLD NEPALI HABIT OF CALLING EACH OTHER "Dai, Didi, Bhai or Bahini". That is sooooooooooo wrong. How can you date someone once you called him/her Dai or Didi ? ok nattu, to be fair with you, a quote from MAHA for you " ta nai tyaso bhanchas bhane ta tero order ta hamle mannai paryo ni" :) As far as the bloody nepali habit goes, I would like to adhere to it for eternity. Not every gal you see, you see as a potential date do you? or are u still inclined to that bloody old story of mahadev dating six year old :P? then, I have no explanation for you. Now look at the positive side, if u are apt to say someone a bahini, then you are making it clear without any explanation that you are not seeing her as your partner. you make clear your objective and at the same time you maintain the relationship. I have always believed in building bridges rather than walls, so u go figure! Now as far as didis are concerned, that's a true blessing. Gals might last a few dates here and there, but didis last lifetime and beyond. :) hoina ta najar DIJJU :P?